I have recently been learning how to put make up on, I know it sounds a bit late to start (at 27) but at least I started! :) Lol, trying to encourage myself.
I was never good at make up. Growing up as a child and a teenager, I must admit that I was often amazed by how people can paint their faces so well but I just did not have the time (and the money) to invest in this. I spent all my time in my studies and watching TV (hence the thick, nerdy glasses; well I supposed it's genetic as well ;p)and neglected the part of grooming myself.
I remember when I first met my then first ever boyfriend (now my husband), I did not have any make up kit, not even lip gloss, often dressed in casual blouse and jeans (but thank God I was at least evolved into wearing contact lenses already) and was quite surprised (pleasantly) when he told me that he was attracted to me the first time we met. It must be God!!! LOL :)
But I supposed when I read Psalm 31 about the renown noble woman, I want to learn from her. She is excellent in every way. She dressed herself (and her family) in scarlet; which symbolises wealth and beauty at that culture of that time. I know I can't be perfect in every way, but I can at least put effort into being excellent in all that I do. Hubby told me that it is good for a woman to keep looking good for her husband and for the husband to keep chasing and winning the heart of his wife. That's how the marriage can be kept fresh and alive! :)
To free myself from my old mindset (please allow my then personal convictions)that make ups was to cover up ugliness which was unnatural and refused to do it, I have now repented (changed my mindset) to think that make ups enables me to project and enhance my natural beauty! I know, it sounds vain but it's okay to be beautiful :) That is just who God has made me to be :) Why would I act otherwise?
So I have my make up set now, still an amateur but I am learning and hubby says I am getting better. Lol, when I met him after work yesterday for our date night, he said that I look like a model (blush!!) but am happy that I can improve in this area :)
Someone once said, time is precious. If we wasted it or be lazy with things, sooner or later, we will still have to pay for the time that we have wasted. I believe it is quite true. I have spent most of my time watching TV in the past and now I am using my time in a different way, less TV (although it's because I have not got a TV license here) but I just somehow has lost the interest now. I still love watching my history and documentaries programs though but within a limit :)
Another thing that I need to be more diligent is with my on-going studies. I need to catch up more with my reading or otherwise I will be 'lost' when I start work in September, which is VERY, VERY SOON!!
Hahaaa!!! I can so relate to you! Actually I've only started becoming more particular about make-up and dressing after I started courtship with my now-husband :P He was funny... he told me before we were together that he thought it was weird that he was attracted to me (because I was plump, nerdy and unlady-like in my outlook :P) ~ but he was in love with the person I was (and I hope, still am). Yeah...it must have been God - like you said! We are so blessed with husbands like that!
ReplyDeleteAwww, amen! That's right, inner beauty shines brighter than the outer beauty :)I always appreciate men who can see through the outer shells. Lol, I have this crazy idea, i think one day we should meet up when we are back in Malaysia :) I know it's a bit random but just have this feeling that we are friends even we have not yet met each other, don't ask me why :)
ReplyDeleteLOL, that's funny :) Amen, we are truly blessed! I always appreciate men who can see past the outer shells :) I am sure he will be in love with you for always, and your love for each other will grow stronger with each passing day, that's the kind of marriage we will have with Christ in the centre :) Increase in every areas! You know, I have this crazy idea, maybe one day we should meet up when we are back in Malaysia :) that would be quite fun! Just feel that we can be friends and I can introduce my husband to yours :) I told him about you actually but he was a bit blur cause he does not really read my blogs :) am sure will be a blessing to know another sister and brother in Christ!
ReplyDeleteYes, let's meet up when u are back here. It would be awesome.
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